by libraryleader | Feb 6, 2016 | Acceptance, Appearance, Better, Critical, Criticize, Judge, Judgmental
Make no mistake, we judge others by their dress, and they judge us too. It may not be fair. It may not be right. But people tend to treat other people as they are dressed…A salesperson sees two shoppers approaching, one appropriately dressed and the other...
by libraryleader | Jan 31, 2016 | Accuse, Action, Begin, Critical, Criticize, Procrastinate
Nothing would be done at all if one waited until one could do it so well that no one could find fault with it.
by | Dec 18, 2015 | Affirm, Critical, Hugs, Love, Play
If I had my child to raise all over again, I’d finger paint more, and point the finger less. I’d do less correcting, and more connecting. I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I would care to know less, and know to care more. I’d take more hikes and...
by | Dec 18, 2015 | Critical, Judge, Self
When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.
by | Dec 18, 2015 | Complain, Critical, Criticize, Listen, Poison, Quiet, Silent, Sympathetic
The chronic kicker, even the most violent critic, will frequently soften and be subdued in the presence of a patient, sympathetic listener— a listener who will be silent while the irate fault-finder dilates like a king cobra and spews the poison out of his...
by | Dec 18, 2015 | Complain, Condemn, Critical, Criticize, Foolish
[fusion_text]Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain – and most fools do.[/fusion_text]